Showing posts with label Rape. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Rape. Show all posts

9.09.2011

NOPD Declares War on Sex Workers

Really?

Calling prostitution "a dangerous, violent crime," NOPD Police Chief Ronal Serpas announced today that New Orleans police had arrested 67 sex workers in the months of July and August in an undercover operation that also involved State Police, the FBI and the Secret Service.

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Chief Serpas' official statements further demonized the sex workers, accusing them of nearly every crime short of terrorism. "We find time and time again that women and men who actively participate in prostitution tend to commit other crimes," claimed Serpas. "Such as some form of battery, simple robbery, armed robbery, illegal drug deals, or carrying concealed weapons. In some cases, customers of prostitutes find that their wallets have been lifted, which means bank card theft and sometimes stolen identity cases. This is why it’s an incredibly worthwhile effort to target people involved in the prostitution business."
But the men who solicit prostitutes are fine, upstanding citizens? Also, this is just lazy. How many open cases involving robbery, drugs, and weapons are sitting open on the books right now, unlikely to be solved by a few out of hundreds of sex workers being arrested? How about dealing with the fact that if you look at the rate of conviction in this city, murder and especially rape (a crime that sex workers are vulnerable to - I wonder how seriously the NOPD takes that violent crime when it's committed against a prostitute) are barely crimes. I could kill someone right now, do the bare minimum to cover it up, and I'm guessing that there would be about a 25% chance that I'd be arrested and convicted. I once had to call the police for a rape in progress (some asshole was raping a young woman on the porch across the street from my office. At 9am. Yeah.) Never saw a cop. If I ever see something like that again I'll just stab him with my switchblade, since I probably won't get caught anyway (another problem - cops don't give a damn when Black men are killed).

And I know why they're suddenly concerned about this issue. I get the crime alerts from the French Quarter district - tourists are soliciting "prostitutes" and getting ambushed and robbed. Of course, the alerts don't actually say that. I remember one from a few months ago where the victim met two (unknown) women - one black, one white - in Jackson Square. They headed somewhere to "hang out", he got into an SUV with them (remember, he just met these ladies), that was being driven by a man, and of course, after some dramatics involving a gun, ended up exiting the SUV a little while later sans wallet. He also, presumably, didn't get to be apart of that interracial threesome that he was after. Yes, he's a victim because they had no right to liberate his wallet, but ... really? He had intended to hire two women to engage in an illegal act with him. That makes him a criminal too, even if he was some middle class white tourist. Also, since fucking did not actually occur ... the ladies were not really sex workers anyway.

I guess what I'm saying is that even if some of these sex workers are connected to other crimes, this city has so many other more important crimes to deal with that effect whether or not people choose to live here. Yeah, a tourist who got tricked into getting robbed might not come back and the city loses money, but not as much money as it loses when people with middle and upper class incomes decided that they're aren't going to move here, or people who've been here for generations decided to pick up and leave because they can't guarantee that they're not going to get caught in a crossfire, or no one will take their daughter's rape seriously. I don't think those people are worried about being victimized by prostitutes.

Also, the oldest profession in the world is a "dangerous and violent crime"? Get the fuck out of here. Sex workers experience much more danger and violence than their Johns do.

8.12.2011

Campus Rape Victims: A Struggle For Justice : NPR

"When a woman is sexually assaulted on a college campus, her most common reaction is to keep it quiet."
I could write a million words on this topic. It's sad that I feel like it's pure luck that I've never been raped. Studies have shown, that many campus rapists are repeat offenders - serial rapists, predators who hunt down girls who are incapacitated. It's ridiculous when people act as though it was a simple mistake or misunderstanding. And I don't understand why colleges are allowed to deal with sexual assault claims internally at all. It's a crime, it should be a police matter (not that they always do a stand up job, either). I can't deal with a crime that happens in my house internally once the police get wind of it, so why are schools, some of which are public, allowed to do so with seemingly no fear about whether they will be held responsible for covering up a crime and endangering more students? It boggles my mind that people deny that we live in a rape culture when a guy can be internally tried at his college and found guilty of (or admit to) forcing sex on a woman and still get to continue matriculating at the same school as her, instead of going to prison.

1.08.2011

1.04.2011

The (Nonexistent) Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Consequences of Enthusiastic Consent

This is just...brilliant. Especially this:

"Boys are told from a young age that whatever they do will be excused under the "boys will be boys" mantra, and that "boys will be boys" mentality leads to what I call the "boiling frog" problem of women's sexual boundaries. I call it that because if you put a frog into a pot of boiling water, it will jump right out, but if you put a frog into a pot of room-temperature water and slowly heat it to a boil, the frog will acclimate as it heats and never jump out, eventually boiling to death. Similarly, when we learn as young girls to tolerate "low-level" boundary violations like the ones we often are forced to suffer in silence at school, at home and on the street – bra-snapping, boob-grabbing, ass pinching, catcalling, dick flashing "all in good fun" relentless violations that adults and authorities routinely ignore – it makes it harder for us to notice when even greater boundaries are being violated, eventually leading to the reality that many women who are raped just freeze and fall silent, because that's what they've been taught to do over and over since day one."

Read the whole thing here:


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8.07.2010

News Briefs: New RTA Buses, VA Demolitions Halted, Speaking of Cutting Off Dicks...

Blogger's note:  This post is over a month old.  I was looking through my old post and saw that this one was still in draft form.  Why?  I dunno.  I could have sworn that I hit "Publish Post"!

The RTA will soon be replacing the rest of their old buses with the fancy new ones, in addition to buying the bendy busses that I hated riding on in DC when I was younger.

Mayor Mitch has delayed the demolition of 100 homes deemed historically significant in the VA footprint, until the option of relocating them can be discussed.

A South African doctor has created an anti-rape condom with teeth that trap the rapist's penis inside of the victim until help arrives.  It would be better if the item stayed clenched on the rapist, but didn't stay trapped inside of the woman.  Also:
  1. What if the victim has no way to call for help?
  2. What if the rapist gets pissed off and beats the shit out of her?  Or mutilates her in order to detach himself?
  3. How safe is it for women to walk around with objects inside of our vaginas all day?

2.12.2010

The Congo Genocide Rivals the Holocaust

A blogger that I read (Happy Nappy Head) posted about this the other day. I've never even heard about this conflict, and it's death rates rival the Holocaust? I know the US dragged it's heels on fighting to end that atrocity, but how many Congolese will have to die, be raped, and tortured for us to step in over there? That seems like a war worth fighting for.



Here's the letter that I sent to Representative Cao, who represents the 2nd District (where I apparently live. Who knew?):

Dear Representative Cao,

I just read an article about the genocide in Congo, and was shocked by the fact that most people know nothing about this atrocity even though the number of people killed has surpassed the people killed during the Holocaust. I'm writing to ask you and your fellow representatives to please support Representative Jim McDermott's McDermott Amendment to HR 2647 and the Congo Conflict Minerals Act of 2009. When remembering the Holocaust we always say that we'll never let something like that happen again. Well, we already have (Rwanda, Sudan, and now the Congo). When will this country learn from it's mistakes? Let's be heroes instead of hypocrites this time. Below is an op-ed from the NY Times about this atrocity, and below that a YouTube video explaining what this conflict is all about.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/07/opinion/07kristof.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aF-sJgcoY20

10.14.2009

News Briefs: Franken Amendment, ACoE Lies Again, OPP Unconstitutional

It's sad that amendments like this even need to be passed, but I'm glad that Franken knew that this was important enough to make it a priority.

I'm real late on this, but how much more of this bullshit are New Orleanians going to have to take from the Army Corps of Engineers?  It's like they're trying to kill everyone here.

Conditions are unconstitutional in the OPP.  Color me shocked.  The sheriff tries to use the Katrina excuse, but really, I wouldn't be surprised if conditions were unconstitutional before Katrina.

I've thought about this more and more often.  What caused us to be so selfish as a country?

9.10.2009

News Briefs: Treme Writers Signing, Netflix Streams Oz, Campus Rape Crisis, Modern Slavery in New Orleans, Vampire Film Festival

Oooh, oooh, oooh!  Some of the writers of Treme are doing a book signing at Octavia Books next Wednesday at 6pm.  I'll definitely be there, rain or shine.

On October 3rd, Netflix will stream The Wizard of Oz for free for everyone, including those without Netflix accounts.

This great article is about how colleges need to greatly improve how they deal with rape on campus, because at this point it's a crisis and how the onus is always put on young women to behave perfectly so they don't "get themselves raped".  I never heard about anyone getting raped on campus in my 4 years at Cornell, but I'm sure that hundreds were at a school that big with a high female population.  It's all swept under the rug...

When I was an organizer my organization spoke to a lot of immigrant workers who'd been lured to New Orleans with promises of big money, only to be treated like slaves; working long hours with little or no pay, their work visas being sold from one company to another when their work was finished at the first one, etc.  This article is a good summary of what was going on.  Now that there is less destructive and more constructive work going on here, I think many of them have been able to escape and work as day laborers.  But who knows about all of them?

The organization that I'm working for, The Phoenix of New Orleans, is collaborating with the Vampire Film Festival's first voyage in New Orleans, the perfect city for it.  It's really coming together, I'm pretty excited about it.

8.06.2009

Fugitivus - Why Some Women Don't Fight Back During Rape

This is brilliant. I never thought about this, but it makes sense. I'm lucky that I've managed to make it to 24 without ever being sexually assaulted, but when I was in my teens I don't think I would have had the nerve to fight back or even say anything if someone had tried.

ETA: Here's a trailer that I found on Feministe for a related documentary called The Line.

THE LINE trailer from Nancy Schwartzman on Vimeo.

7.23.2009

Sexual Abuse Linked to Obesity?

From Black Women Blow the Trumpet, a discussion about women who overeat to distort their bodies so they will be less attractive to predatory men in their families and communities, and the effects and issues that come with sexual abuse in general.

I never thought about this connection. Then again, I've never actually personally known a Black woman who was sexually abused (I know too many men and women from other groups). I'm sure that this phenomenon is true of some obese white women, as well. It's amazing what our minds will have us do to cope with trauma. I'd love to see research done on this topic. I don't believe in divestment, but incest and molestation need to be discussed much more openly in this country by people of all races, because this is happens way too often for America to claim that it's a civilized country.

7.12.2009

NOPD Downgrades Rape Reports

Dear Blog:

Dsxyfemme85 thought you would be interested in this item from nola.com

http://www.nola.com/news/index.ssf/2009/07/nopd_downgrading_of_rape_repor.html

Dsxyfemme85
I learned about "juking the stats" from The Wire, so it doesn't surprise me that rapes wouldn't be counted properly. I consider it blind luck that I've never been sexually assaulted, because Lord knows I would have to be a fucking nun to be treated with respect and get a conviction.

7.02.2009

Listen Here R. Kelly: You Gotta Stop It With This Pedophile Thing

From The Intersection of Madness and Reality, R. Kelly is being investigated for fucking another minor. If you ask any young people from his area of Chicago, they'll tell you that everybody and their grandma knows that this man fucks teenage girls. And by teenage, not 18 or 19, but 13 through 17 type teenage. And 17 may be a little old for him. It disgusts me that he still has fans, and that so many of them are women.

 
 

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Remember when R. Kelly beat that child molestation charge last year? Remember when he did his interview on BET with my man Toure? If anybody remembers that and thought he was innocent surely they remember this from the interview:

Toure: Let me ask you something real that millions of Americans are thinking about and wondering about you. Do you like teenage girls?

Kelly: When you say teenage, how old are we talking?

Toure: Girls who are teenagers.

Kelly: 19?

Toure: 19 and younger.

Kelly: I have some 19-year-old friends, but I don't like anybody illegal if that's what we're talking about, underage.
Yeah, I remember the interview and this segment especially because his answer was shocking. Had I not seen the tape and all I had to rely upon to decide whether this grown ass man did what he did? I'd have to say he was guilty as charged. Having said that, it would appear that pissy boy Robert either has a problem, or just doesn't give a damn about the law:

July 01, 2009. MediaTakeOut.com has an EXPLOSIVE new report for you. R Kelly is being investigated by the Illinois police for committing statutory rape.

Here's what's going down. MediaTakeOut.com EXCLUSIVELY spoke with a CONFIRMED person close to R Kelly and here's what they told us:

A day before [R Kelly] left for his South Africa tour) about 8 police squad cars pulled up at his front gate. One of the officers, in a loud, commanding voice, yelled: "This is the police. Open up this gate at once. We have a search warrant".

After seeing the officers via his security monitors, Robert instructed his security guys to open the gate. The officers searched the entire house. They were looking for an underage girl who had spent several days at his home with him. Ironically, the girl had just left the mansion about 20 minutes before the police arrived with the search warrant.

The police eventually caught up with the girl, who had just turned 17 years-old--just above the legal limit in the state of Illinois. However, the Olympia Fields Police are still tenaciously pursuing the case. They are still gathering evidence, which includes signed affidavits from several witnesses from within R. Kelly's circle, who can attest to the girl spending consecutive nights at his home prior to the date of her birthday.

Now while we can't CONFIRM everything they're saying, we checked out what our snitch told us – and the Olympia Fields Police department CONFIRMED to that R Kelly is under investigation. [source]
Now I just heard that he plans to do a tribute to Michael Jackson from South Africa while on tour. Umm, with all the alleged accusations and rumors surrounding Michael Jackson and child molestation even in death? I don't think this would be a good idea if Robert "Weak Bladder" Kelly follows through with this.

I don't know what it's gonna take to finally put this guy away after all these years and all these songs where he was warning us of his fetish. But I do know that his ass needs to be thrown in prison where the anal rape option is on the table as weekly punishment.

That, plus all you grown ass women who love this Negro and his music need to seek counseling. Chances are you have issues your damn self and possibly are into that whole gettin peed on thing.

I don't know, but maybe Robert got tired about all the attention Michael Jackson is getting right now that he decided to drip drip drip on another minor.


 
 

Things you can do from here:

 
 

6.30.2009

AlterNet: 'He Thought a Baby Would Keep Me in His Life Forever': When Partner Abuse Isn't a Bruise But a Pregnant Belly

This story has been forwarded to you from
http://www.alternet.org by Dsxyfemme85

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'He Thought a Baby Would Keep Me in His Life Forever': When Partner Abuse Isn't a Bruise But a Pregnant Belly
http://www.alternet.org/reproductivejustice/140887

Intimate partner violence doesn't always show up in police photos as swollen bruises. Instead, the evidence might be the victim's pregnant belly.
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I never thought about this, but I guess it is a good measure of an unhealthy relationship.

5.28.2009

From Tiger Beatdown: The Abu Ghraib Pics Depict Rape

I'm not surprised either, but Sady at Tiger Beatdown sort of captures my feelings pretty clearly here.